I am coming home
Life was hard for 30-year old Wang Yongqiang. His mother
committed suicide after a painful struggle with illness. His father suffers
from a back injury preventing him from walking properly. Last year, Wang left
his village in Hebei, China to work as a construction worker in Singapore. The
money he gets helps to pay for his father’s medical bills and his daughter’s
school fees.
But now that the one-year contract was over, Wang was finally
coming home. He called his wife and asked her what she wanted from Singapore.
“Anything,” she said. Wang surprised her by buying a ring for 1,800 yuan - a
month’s paycheck in their village.
Wang knew his wife had lost her wedding ring while he was away.
“If you didn’t lose it,” he said, “how can I buy something else for you?” He
was so excited about the ring that he sent a photo to her mobile phone: The
ring was gold with a decorative flower in a red box. Very Asian.
One week later, Wang took a five-hour bus-ride from Singapore
to Kuala Lumpur International Airport. Before midnight on March 8th, 2014, Wang
Yongqiang boarded Malaysia Airlines Flight MH370. Today marks day thirty-six
since the plane went missing.
His last words were, “Tell all our relatives I am coming home.”
Prayer is hard
When you are faced with a sudden tragedy and dealing with
tremendous loss, the hardest thing you can do is pray. And yet, the most honest
thing you can do is pray.
Prayer is hard when you’re hurt. When you’re angry and you’re
frustrated, prayer is just hard. At the same time, prayer is honest. Everything
inside you says, “Help me, please. Help me.”
In our passage today, Jesus prays this kind of prayer. In verse
34, Jesus says, “My soul is overwhelmed to the point of death.” He falls to the
ground and he prays.
I want us to see three things in today’s passage. I want us to
see (1) Jesus praying with fear; (2) Jesus praying with friends; and (3) Jesus
praying with faith.
Praying with fear
We begin with verse 32.
They
went to a place called Gethsemane, and Jesus said to his disciples, “Sit here
while I pray.” He took Peter, James and John along with him, and he began to be
deeply distressed and troubled. “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the
point of death,” he said to them. “Stay here and keep watch.”
Mark
14:32-34
Jesus prays with fear in his heart. But how can Jesus be afraid
of anything? He has faced demons. He has faced the devil. In a few moments, he
knows he is going to face Judas and says, “Let’s go and meet my betrayer!”
Jesus is fearless throughout Mark’s gospel.
But not here. Jesus is a broken man. Here, in a garden called
Gethsemane, moments away from the cross, Jesus does not want to die. Let me say
that again: Jesus does not want to die. And Jesus prays that he will not have
to die.
Look at verse 35:
Going
a little farther, he fell to the ground and prayed that if possible the hour
might pass from him. “Abba, Father,” he said, “everything is possible for you.
Take this cup from me. Yet not what I will, but what you will.”
Mark
14:35-36
Essentially, Jesus is saying: Is there is any other way? Is
there any other way for God to save without him being sacrificed. Any other way
for us to be forgiven and for him not to be forsaken. Jesus is praying with
fear.
The movie, “The Passion of the Christ,” released ten years ago,
opens with this scene of Jesus praying in Gethsemane. If you watched it, you
will remember how violent was the portrayal of Jesus’ torture leading up to the
cross. The flesh being ripped from his back. The blood staining his entire
body. The nails driven into his hands. The movie displayed how painful and how
horrific it was for Jesus to go to the cross.
But the movie begins here - in the garden - because Jesus’
prayer here tells us why he died. Not just how he died but why he died. Not just
how painful but how fearful it was. The cross was God’s will to condemn his
son.
“Abba, Father,” Jesus says.
Doesn’t Jesus teach us to call God, “Our Father”? “Which of
you,” Jesus says, “if his son asks for bread will give him a stone? Or if he
asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you then, though you are evil, know
how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in
heaven give good gifts to those who ask him.” (Matthew 7:9-11)
Yet here, we find Jesus asking but not receiving. “Take this
cup from me,” Jesus asks. “Let this hour pass from me,” he begs. “I do not want
to die.”
The answer was no.
The cup which Jesus asks to be taken away is a picture of God's judgement over sin. The prophets Isaiah and Jeremiah described it as the cup of God's anger - all of his punishment for all of sin condensed into a single drink. It is interesting that a few verses earlier, Jesus gave thanks for the cup, shared the cup with his friends, saying, "This is the blood of the covenant poured out for many." Christians celebrate this in communion today.
Jesus understood that his death would mean our forgiveness. But Jesus also understood that his death would mean taking our judgement. On the cross, Jesus would be separated from his Father, crying out, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" That's the bible's definition of death: To be forsaken - abandoned - by God. Knowing that, Jesus prayed that if possible, the cup would be taken away. He prayed that if possible, he wouldn't have to die.
The cup which Jesus asks to be taken away is a picture of God's judgement over sin. The prophets Isaiah and Jeremiah described it as the cup of God's anger - all of his punishment for all of sin condensed into a single drink. It is interesting that a few verses earlier, Jesus gave thanks for the cup, shared the cup with his friends, saying, "This is the blood of the covenant poured out for many." Christians celebrate this in communion today.
Jesus understood that his death would mean our forgiveness. But Jesus also understood that his death would mean taking our judgement. On the cross, Jesus would be separated from his Father, crying out, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" That's the bible's definition of death: To be forsaken - abandoned - by God. Knowing that, Jesus prayed that if possible, the cup would be taken away. He prayed that if possible, he wouldn't have to die.
Friends, when you find it hard to pray because prayer is just
too difficult - just too painful - you are in good company. Jesus prayed with
tears in his eyes and pain in his heart. But still, he prayed.
To pray is to ask God. I know a lot of people say, “Praying is
just like talking to God.” That is not true. To pray is to ask God. And even
though we might ask for wrong things with wrong motives - even though that’s
true and the bible does warn us about that - the real problem is: many of us
don’t ask. We do not pray.
Prayer is hard but prayer is also honest. “Please heal me. I do
not want to die.” In a few moments, we will see what it means to pray with
friends; which is what we usually do here in the Chinese Church. There is a
crisis; we organise a prayer meeting; get all our friends together; and someone
stands up to pray for our comfort, another one stands up to pray for our
healing. But I am talking about how you deal with your pain when no one else is
in the room. And I’m telling you: You can pray. Your sorrow and your pain
should lead to pray not away from it. It should bring you to your knees.
Because Jesus prayed knowing the answer to his prayer was not
the one he was looking for. Because Jesus prayed when no-one else was praying
for him.
Praying with friends
Verse 37:
Then
he returned to his disciples and found them sleeping. “Simon,” he said to
Peter, “are you asleep? Could you not keep watch for one hour? Watch and pray
so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body
is weak.”
Mark
14:37-38
Three years ago, I was preached on this passage and after the
sermon someone came up to me to apologise. He said, “Do you the part where you
said, ‘Are you asleep?’ Well, I was asleep. During your sermon.”
It is possible to read this verse and think Jesus wanted them
to feel bad. They were supposed to pray but they fell asleep - three times! But
Jesus doesn’t say that. “Watch and pray for my sake.” No, Jesus says, “Watch
and pray so that you will not fall
into temptation.” Jesus was worried about them.
They thought Jesus was being paranoid. In verse 27, when Jesus
says, “You will all fall away,” Peter replies, “Even if all fall away, I will
not.” “Even if I have to die with you, I will never disown you.” Big words. “You can count on me, Jesus.
I’ll be there.” That’s why Jesus says to him, “Simon, are you asleep? Could you
not keep watch for one hour?”
The reason we don’t pray is the reason we do not listen. It’s
pride. It’s not that you’re busy or lazy or you don’t know how. It’s because you’re
proud. “I can deal with that problem myself.” Even when God says, “No, you
can’t,” you think, “He’s talking about someone else because I’m OK.”
Get this: Jesus is not asking them to pray for him. He is
saying: they need to pray for themselves. At the end of Rock bible study when
we go round and share our prayer requests, and you say, “Don’t trouble
yourself.” You think you’re being humble. You’re being stupid.
Verse 39:
Once
more he went away and prayed the same thing. When he came back, he again found
them sleeping, because their eyes were heavy. They did not know what to say to
him.
Mark
14:39-40
Meaning: They had no excuse. They had a big dinner. It was
late. You know how it is. Jesus caught them sleeping and they were embarrassed,
that’s all.
But I think the reason why Mark tells us, “They did not know
what to say,” is: they knew they messed up. Even if they didn’t understand what
was going on, “The Son of Man will be betrayed” - “What did he mean by that?”; even if it had been a long day; even
if they thought Jesus was crazy; they could see him falling to the ground; hear
him calling out, “Father! Father!” If your friend comes to you and says, “This
is killing me,” and you ignore him? You are a lousy friend.
But the amazing thing is, Jesus loves his lousy friends.
In Luke’s gospel, Jesus says, “I have prayed for you, Simon,
that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen your
brothers.” (Luke 22:32)
Three times, they fall asleep. Three times, Simon denies Jesus.
Three times, Jesus prays and reminds them to pray. It’s not a coincidence.
Jesus is faithful even when we’re faithless.
I know that the easiest way to embarrass a roomful of
Christians is to ask them, “How is your prayer life?” Many of us practice
“horizontal” prayer times - those last five seconds in bed before you fall
asleep. But I also know, Jesus is not guilting his friends into doing quiet
time. He is worried for them. He is saying, “You don’t pray - you’re not prepared.
Not for temptation. Not for suffering. If you don’t pray, you are standing on
shaky ground.”
1 John 2:1 says that when we sin, we have an advocate with the
Father - Jesus Christ, the Righteous One. Do you know what an advocate means?
When you mess up big time, Jesus is praying for your forgiveness. He is saying
to God, “Father, forgive them.” Even when we’re faithless, he is faithful.
I met a friend recently and asked him, “What’s new?” He said,
“I have six months to live.” How do you respond to something like that? For
what it’s worth, I said, “Thank you for
being honest with me. I am so sorry to hear that.” We talked about God. We
talked about what the next six months would be like. But really, all he wanted to
talk about was his family: how his mum took the news; how his kids would deal
with the funeral.
Jesus is hours away from the cross and he is concerned for his
friends. He prays for them, he prays with them; he reminds them to pray.
Praying with faith
Verse 41:
Returning
the third time, he said to them, “Are you still sleeping and resting? Enough!
The hour has come. Look, the Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners.
Rise! Let us go! Here comes my betrayer!”
Mark
14:41-42
Jesus is betrayed, arrested and condemned. Good Friday - which
is this Friday - reminds us that all
this happened. So, the question is: How could Jesus have prayed with faith if
God did not save him from death?
The bible tells us - this is Hebrews Chapter 5, verse 7 -
“During the days of Jesus’ life on earth, he offered up prayers and petitions
with loud cries and tears to the one who could save him from death, and he was
heard because of his reverent submission.”
God heard his prayer and God answered his prayer. How can that
be? He asked not to die but he died. He asked not to suffer but he was
crucified. How could God have heard his prayer?
Because Jesus asked for God’s will to be done. And on the
cross, God’s will was done.
What does it mean to pray with faith? Health and wealth and
blessing? I was once in a church where the pastor prayed for a Mercedes Benz.
“I have faith that God will give me
that car.” Nonsense. If you understand Gethsemane, praying with faith means
saying, “Not my will but yours.” It means trusting in God and entrusting
yourself to God. It is seeking after God’s glory and not your glory.
Friends, prayer is not some kind of technique to get God to do
what you want: Say the right words, use
the right technique, God will bless you. Prayer is a reflection of your
relationship with God. What we see in Jesus’ prayer is how much he loved his
Father. What we see in Jesus’ prayer is how much he submitted himself to his
Father. Prayer is a reflection of your relationship with God. What would your
prayer life say about your relationship with God? Jesus’ prayer showed how much
he loved his Father.
But if you are not a Christian here today, I want you to see how much God loves you. “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and
only Son.” God loved you so much he gave his only Son.
If there was any other way, would God have sacrificed his Son?
If you could be saved another way - by following Mohammed, by following Buddha
- would God have sent Jesus to the cross? When Christians say Jesus is the only
way, the only truth, the only life - people think that’s arrogant. But if you
understand Jesus’ prayer, that is the most loving thing God could ever do for
you. Because the only way God could forgive your sin was by sending his Son
to die for your sin.
Jesus prayed with fear - because death is fearful. Jesus prayed
with friends - not because he needed their prayers but because they needed his.
Jesus prayed with faith - asking that God’s will be done, through the cross, through
his death and through his resurrection - so that God would be glorified and
that we could be justified.
He
who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all - how will he not
also, along with him, graciously give us all things?
Romans
8:32
Heavenly
Father,
Thank
you for giving us your Son,
The
Lord Jesus Christ.
As
a sacrifice for our sin.
For
the sake of your Son,
forgive
us and change us.
And
by your Holy Spirit,
enable
us to live a life pleasing to you.
Not
my will but yours be done.
In
Jesus’ name we pray,
Amen.
