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Thursday, 6 October 2011

God's will, my way (Judges 1)



Who is next?

After the death of Joshua, the Israelites asked the LORD, “Who will be the first to go up and fight for us against the Canaanites?” The LORD answered, “Judah is to go; I have given the land into their hands.”
Judges 1:1-2

The book of Judges begins with the passing of a great leader. Joshua had led the people of Israel into the Promised Land, taking up the mantle of leadership from Moses, who, in turn, had led Israel out of slavery in Egypt. Both were men of God, chosen by God to lead the people of God. But now, Joshua was gone. Who would lead Israel now?

Their first instinct was not to appoint another military commander. Joshua had taught them well. It was God who had rescued them from slavery. It was God who  had given them the land. The Israelites turned to God for guidance.

They ask God which tribe should go first and “fight for us”. The land was inhabited by the Canaanites, and taking the land was an act of war against the local inhabitants. The Canaanites were stronger, more numerous and technologically more advanced (They had “iron chariots” in verse 19). Yet in the previous book of Joshua, we read that the land had be divided up amongst the twelve tribes to secure and occupy. Now the Israelites wanted to ask God, “Who’s first”.

God answers “Judah”. In the NIV, verse 2 reads, “Judah is to go, I have given the land into their hands.” Yet in the original, God refers to each tribe as an individual. In the ESV, it’s “I have given the land into his (singular) hands”. There is a double-meaning here. The people have come to God asking for guidance - his will - in the absence of a leader. The ask which tribe will lead them into battle. God says “Judah”, and by that God is giving both a short-term and long-term answer. Judah as a tribe would lead the initial conquest, But out of Judah would one day come the leader who would succeed Joshua and Moses, and lead the nation as a kingdom.

But we’re getting ahead of ourselves. Let’s read on.

Two brothers

Then the men of Judah said to the Simeonites their brothers, “Come up with us into the territory allotted to us, to fight against the Canaanites. We in turn will go with you into yours.” So the Simeonites went with them.
Judges 1:3

It was a move of tactical brilliance - to invite the smaller tribe of Simeon to join forces with Judah. After all, Simeon’s territory was actually smack within the area of land allotted to Judah. Working together would be mutually beneficial.

Also, these two had a history together. The twelve tribes were descendants of the twelve sons of Jacob. Judah and Simeon were particularly closely related as they both came from the same mother, Leah (Genesis 33), It is again worth pointing out that in the original text, Judah and Simeon interact with one another like two individuals. If you read the ESV you will see that “Judah said to Simeon his brother, ‘Come with me’” (verse 3) and “So Simeon went with him”.

And it looks like this partnership between the two brothers paid off. Their first battle was an overwhelming success.

When Judah attacked, the LORD gave the Canaanites and Perizzites into their hands and they struck down ten thousand men at Bezek.
Judges 1:4

Yet it is in the midst of this triumphant victory in Bezek that the book of Judges records for us a scene of extreme cruelty and torture.

The way of the kings

It was there that they found Adoni-Bezek and fought against him, putting to rout the Canaanites and Perizzites. Adoni-Bezek fled, but they chased him and caught him, and cut off his thumbs and big toes.
Judges 1:5-6

Adoni-Bezek was a title for the King (‘Adon is Hebrew for Lord or King). It wasn’t enough to take the city. Judah went out of their way to capture the king, even hunting him down as he attempted to flee the battle. And once they did, they “cut off his thumbs and big toes”.

Why did they do this? Remarkably, not only does the book of Judges tell us why, but it does so using the words of this pagan, Canaanite, enemy king - who even acknowledges God in the process!

Then Adoni-Bezek said, “Seventy kings with their thumbs and big toes cut off have picked up scraps under my table. Now God has paid me back for what I did to them.” They brought him to Jerusalem, and he died there.
Judges 1:7

The King of Bezek essentially said, “This is exactly what I would have done.” In his mind, God was simply paying him back for the cruelty and humiliation he had inflicted on the captives under his rule. “This is what I deserve,” he seems to be saying.

And yet, there is something very wrong with this picture. These are the words of a pagan king. These are the actions of a pagan nation. Yet these have now become the accepted practice of the people of God.

It was a form of torture, humiliation and cruelty that Israel could carry out in the name of justice, and yet do so in such a way that nations around them would look at and say, “That makes sense. It’s what we would do.”

This was the way of the world. It wasn’t the will of God.

What then were the Israelites to do?

Utter destruction

The men of Judah attacked Jerusalem also and took it. They put the city to the sword and set it on fire.
Judges 1:8

Then the men of Judah went with the Simeonites their brothers and attacked the Canaanites living in Zephath, and they totally destroyed the city. Therefore it was called Hormah. The men of Judah also took Gaza, Ashkelon and Ekron—each city with its territory.
Judges 1:17-18

In short, the Israelites were to attack and annihilate the cities with their inhabitants. The Hebrew term for this is herem - used in verse 17 to describe how the city of Zephath was “totally destroyed” - and incorporated into its new name, Hormah.

Where I come from, in Malaysia, the Malay word “haram” means something that is forbidden - something that would defile a person in the eyes of God. It has a similar meaning in the Arab language; and there actually is this same sense of forbiddenness in the use of the word herem here. In Joshua Chapter 6, the word is used repeatedly when speaking of the herem or destruction of the city of Jericho:

The city and all that is in it are to be devoted (herem) to the LORD. Only Rahab the prostitute and all who are with her in her house shall be spared, because she hid the spies we sent. But keep away from the devoted things (ha-harem), so that you will not bring about your own destruction (th-haremu) by taking any of them. Otherwise you will make the camp of Israel liable to destruction (le-herem) and bring trouble on it.
Joshua 6:17-18

The reason why they were to utterly destroy the Canaanite cities was because leaving any traces (They were to “keep away” from them, and never contemplate “taking any of them”) would lead to their own destruction. This also meant the Israelites were not to “profit” from this destruction - by keeping any bits of wealth back for themselves (See especially the excuse given by King Saul in 1 Samuel 15 where the word herem recurs).

Over four hundred years earlier, God told Abraham in a vision how he would use Abraham’s descendants to bring judgement upon people of Canaan. In a vision recorded in Genesis 15, God foretells the slavery in Egypt, the exodus and finally, the conquest of the Promised Land, saying, “In the fourth generation your descendants will come back here, for the sin of the Amorites has not yet reached its full measure.” (Genesis 15:16) In other words, all this while God had been holding back his judgement for generations and for centuries.

And forty years earlier, while the Israelites were still in the desert, God spoke through Moses, warning them of the dangerous influence posed by the idolatrous practices of the Canaanites.

I will hand over to you the people who live in the land and you will drive them out before you. Do not make a covenant with them or with their gods. Do not let them live in your land, or they will cause you to sin against me, because the worship of their gods will certainly be a snare to you.
Exodus 23:31-33

Now in all this, it is clear that God is the one who (1) gives the land to Israel, as part of the fulfilment of the promise made to Abraham; and (2) uses Israel to carry out his judgement upon the inhabitants of Canaan. It wasn’t because Israel was better or more deserving. Indeed, the book of Judges is there to illustrate the very point that the people of God progressively fell deeper and deeper into sin, idolatry and rebellion against God.

The kingdom of the Son

At the same time, God does carry out his judgement upon the sins of the Canaanites. It is a punishment of death and destruction. We cannot ignore that or excuse the fact that this is plain in the bible. Death is a consequence of sin and rebellion against a holy God, who has every right to judge his creation through the punishment of death. Having said that, physical death is but a shadow of the greater and infinitely more serious judgement that is spiritual death. It is this spiritual reality that Jesus clarifies to Pilate at his interrogation before his crucifixion.

My kingdom is not of this world. If it were, my servants would fight to prevent my arrest by the Jews. But now my kingdom is from another place.
John 18:36

The kingdom of God is a spiritual reality inaugurated through Jesus. It is not of this world, Jesus says. Otherwise his servants would fight. Otherwise, like the Israelites here in Judges Chapter 1, we would be fighting a physical war to enlarge territory and destroy any opposing influences. But we don’t and we shouldn’t. Because the bible tells us that the Kingdom of God comes through the cross of Jesus Christ.

For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.
Colossians 1:13

On the cross, Jesus takes our judgement upon himself. Our punishment. Our death. Our complete destruction. In order that we can receive “redemption, the forgiveness of sins”. By trusting in his death on our behalf, God brings us “into the kingdom of the Son he loves.”

The next generation

Now back to Judges 1. Embedded in this story of wars and battles and skirmishes led by Judah, is a story about the family of Caleb, who was also a member of the tribe of Judah. Remembering that Judges picks up where Joshua left off, Caleb is the only other surviving member from Joshua’s generation; the only other Israelite to have lived under the leadership of Moses, seen the rescue from slavery in Egypt, crossed the Red Sea and experienced the forty years of wandering in the desert. So what Caleb is doing here is ensuring that his legacy of faithfulness to God is passed on to the next generation.

From there they advanced against the people living in Debir (formerly called Kiriath Sepher). And Caleb said, “I will give my daughter Acsah in marriage to the man who attacks and captures Kiriath Sepher.” Othniel son of Kenaz, Caleb’s younger brother, took it; so Caleb gave his daughter Acsah to him in marriage.
Judges 1:11-13

Caleb was now eighty-five years (Joshua 14:10) old but this old man was right up front leading the charge to claim the land that was promised him by God.

I am still as strong today as the day Moses sent me out; I’m just as vigorous to go out to battle now as I was then. Now give me this hill country that the LORD promised me that day.
Joshua 14:11

Yet at the same time, Caleb knows that this is a fight to be passed on as a legacy and an inheritance to the next generation. So he promises his daughter in marriage to the man who successfully takes the city of Kiriath Sepher. It turns out to be his own nephew, Othniel (who later on features as one of the judges in this book). He wants a son-in-law who knows how to fight and how to lead in the fight for the land.

But we don’t hear anything from Othniel. Instead it is Caleb’s daughter who features next in a request she makes to her father through her husband.

One day when she came to Othniel, she urged him to ask her father for a field. When she got off her donkey, Caleb asked her, “What can I do for you?” She replied, “Do me a special favor. Since you have given me land in the Negev, give me also springs of water.” Then Caleb gave her the upper and lower springs.
Judges 1:14-15

Why does she ask for “springs of water”? Her father has given her in marriage to Othniel - about which she has no apparent objection - but she does have a comment about the land given as her dowry. She calls it “land in the Negev”, and if you look just a few verses later to verse 16 - we read that it is a desert (“The Desert of Judah in the Negev”). Meaning: it is a dry land unsuitable for sustaining life.

Again what we have here is continuity. Acsah is thinking ahead about what it takes to build a new home and a new life. The land needs water to grow crops and sustain livestock. So she asks for springs of water. And her father Caleb, generously bestows upon her both the “upper and lower springs”. All the water she needs.

The land was not just a prize to be won in a fight. It was a source of life and blessing. Both Caleb and his daughter display foresight in planning for the future - ensuring there is a legacy to pass down the generations to come; securing abundant means for life and growth for themselves and those they love.

Things start to take a turn for the worse, however, from verse 19 onwards.

Who can be against us?

The LORD was with the men of Judah. They took possession of the hill country, but they were unable to drive the people from the plains, because they had iron chariots. As Moses had promised, Hebron was given to Caleb, who drove from it the three sons of Anak. The Benjamites, however, failed to dislodge the Jebusites, who were living in Jerusalem; to this day the Jebusites live there with the Benjamites.
Judges 1:19-21

Judah’s campaign has seen victory upon victory. Until, that is they go up against technology. “Iron chariots”, as verse 19 describes them. What happened? The beginning of the verse clearly states “The LORD was will the men of Judah”. Does this mean God’s pretty useful in a small-time skirmish involving swords and bows and arrows. But the moment the enemy gets a hold of laser-guided missiles and nuclear weapons, we’re done for?

Back in Joshua 17, the Israelites complain to Joshua about these “iron chariots”. There, the tribe of Joseph demanded more land - simply because they were bigger. Yet, the area allotted them was too difficult to obtain. This was long before anyone had even stepped into the territoy or engaged in a single battle. One of the largest tribes was already demoralised and concluded that they couldn’t take on the Canaanites. Why? Because of their “iron chariots”.

The author of Judges knows this, which is why he places Caleb’s victory right after summarising Judah’s failure. An eighty-five year old man succeeded where an entire tribe - who had enlisted the help of an additional tribe - had failed. Caleb fought not because he had the numbers, or because he had the strength, but because he had God’s promise. This was the mountain God has promised - it was his inheritance.

The result was compromise. The Benjamites fought to clear the land but failed. As a consequence, the Jebusites continued to live permanently in the land with their people. “To this day the Jebusites live there with the Benjamites”.

Now, what’s so bad about that, you might ask?

Winners and Luz-ers

Now the house of Joseph attacked Bethel, and the LORD was with them. When they sent men to spy out Bethel (formerly called Luz), the spies saw a man coming out of the city and they said to him, “Show us how to get into the city and we will see that you are treated well.” So he showed them, and they put the city to the sword but spared the man and his whole family. He then went to the land of the Hittites, where he built a city and called it Luz, which is its name to this day.
Judges 1:19-21

They sacked Luz and spared just one man and his family. It’s a victory. The house of Joseph even renamed the city to “Bethel”. Meaning: this was an important location in the history of Israel. Bethel was where Jacob received God’s promise of blessing in a dream (Genesis 28) and built an altar to God (Genesis 35). There, God gave him the promise of this very land the Israelites were now fighting for. This was a momentous victory for the people of God.

And the way in which they sent spies and got the cooperation of the local is reminiscent of their most recent triumph in Jericho. Rahab hid the spies and she was spared from destruction together with her family (Joshua 6:16).

But that is where the similarity ends.

Unlike Rahab, this man from Luz had no regard for God. Unlike Rahab, he didn’t remain in Bethel and had no interest in being a part of the people of God. When his life was spared, he simply left for his own country “to the land of the Hittites, where he built a city.” What did he name that city? Luz.

Luz wasn’t destroyed. It changed postal codes, that’s all. And all it took was one man to rebuild Luz, a city that remained “to this day” (verse 21).

Failed conquests and forced labour

But Manasseh did not drive out the people of Beth Shan or Taanach or Dor or Ibleam or Megiddo and their surrounding settlements, for the Canaanites were determined to live in that land. When Israel became strong, they pressed the Canaanites into forced labour but never drove them out completely. Nor did Ephraim drive out the Canaanites living in Gezer, but the Canaanites continued to live there among them. Neither did Zebulun drive out the Canaanites living in Kitron or Nahalol, who remained among them; but they did subject them to forced labour. Nor did Asher drive out those living in Acco or Sidon or Ahlab or Aczib or Helbah or Aphek or Rehob, and because of this the people of Asher lived among the Canaanite inhabitants of the land. Neither did Naphtali drive out those living in Beth Shemesh or Beth Anath; but the Naphtalites too lived among the Canaanite inhabitants of the land, and those living in Beth Shemesh and Beth Anath became forced labourers for them. The Amorites confined the Danites to the hill country, not allowing them to come down into the plain. And the Amorites were determined also to hold out in Mount Heres, Aijalon and Shaalbim, but when the power of the house of Joseph increased, they too were pressed into forced labour. The boundary of the Amorites was from Scorpion Pass to Sela and beyond.
Judges 1:27-36

We move on from bad to worse. No longer are we presented with a list of cities won over by the people of God. Instead we have a string of “would haves” and “should haves” and “might have beens”. Meaning: we don’t have here a list of attempts that didn’t quite make it, though Well done and bravo for giving it a go. No, what we have are people who have tried, failed but then given up trying altogether.

Manasseh fights but fails in five cities (Beth Shan, Taanach, Dor, Ibleam, Megiddo). The reason? The Canaanites were too strong. And yet, when we read next that Israel musters up its forces and does grow strong enough, what do they do? “They pressed the Canaanites to forced labour”. The same thing happens with Zebulun (verse 30), Naphtali (verse 33) and Joseph (verse 34): “When the power of the house of Joseph increased, they too were pressed into forced labour”.

They always had a good reason for letting the Canaanites stick around. Either it was difficult to dislodge them or it was just more advantageous to put the Canaanites to work as slaves.

Of the long list, two tribes stand out: Asher and and Dan. While most of the other tribes had Canaanites living among them, the situation was the reverse with Asher - “They lived among  the Canaanite inhabitants of the land”. Instead of claiming the inheritance due their tribe, Asher had given up completely. It was just easier to find a corner to settle down and not cause any trouble.

Still, it is the tribe of Dan who had it really tough. They couldn’t move in at all. “The Amorites confined the Danites to the hill country, not allowing them to come down into the plain” (verse 34). We meet the tribe again in Chapter 18 where they were “seeking a place of their own where they might settle”. They still didn’t get an inch. There we see a people who had become desperate, opportunistic and even idolatrous. They end up attacking a peaceful, unsuspecting town and made that settlement their home instead.

God’s will and God’s son

The chapter began with Israel enquiring after God’s will but ended with them doing God’s will their own way. No longer was the conquest an act of obedience to God’s word. Instead, success or failure depended on numbers, weaponry and the terrain of the land.

When Joshua died, much of the battle was still left to be fought and the people of God were left without a leader. Yet for Christians, we look back to the death of another Joshua - more commonly known as Jesus (though both share the exact same name) - who through his death secured the victory and leads us into the kingdom of God.

When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your sinful nature, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, having canceled the written code, with its regulations, that was against us and that stood opposed to us; he took it away, nailing it to the cross. And having disarmed the powers and authorities, he made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross.
Colossians 2:13-15

Christ who descended from the tribe of Judah was the one chosen to fight for us. He was obedient to his Father’s will unto death - he was herem; accursed on our behalf - that we might receive forgiveness and full restoration as citizens in God’s kingdom. But finally as the Colossians 2 makes clear, he defeats all who oppose him by “triumphing over them by the cross”.

As tempting as it would be to draw an analogy between the conquest of Canaan and our Christian faith, or even our struggle with sin, Judges Chapter 1 isn’t really about us. It is about Jesus and his victory secured through his sacrifice on the cross, won on our behalf through his obedience to the will of God.

On the cross we see God’s will carried out God’s way through God’s son: Jesus.

Through the kisses of a friend's betrayal,
He was lifted on a cruel cross;
He was punished for the world's transgressions,
He was suffering to save the lost
He fights for breath, He fights for me
Loosing sinners from the claims of hell;
And with a shout our souls are free -
Death defeated by Immanuel!
(“From the squalor of a borrowed stable” by Stuart Townend)

Monday, 24 May 2010

The Grace of Exposed Sin (Genesis 38)

"I am sure that God is bringing good out of evil every single day"
Mark Ashton, 3 March 2010

Genesis 38 is one of those chapters you probably skipped in Sunday School. It's a story about sinful actions, selfish desires and God's judgement. No one comes out looking good in this chapter. Yet, to much of our embarrassment, there it is. In the bible, to be read, in church, in our homes, and applied in our lives. What on earth do you with Genesis 38?

Answer? You read it and marvel: at how amazing, gracious and loving is the God of the bible, who brings good out of evil, every single day.

1. Judah

At that time, Judah left his brothers and went down to stay with a man of Adullam named Hirah. There Judah met the daughter of a Canaanite man named Shua. He married her and lay with her; she became pregnant and gave birth to a son, who was named Er. She conceived again and gave birth to a son and named him Onan. She gave birth to still another son and named him Shelah. It was at Kezib that she gave birth to him.
(Verses 1 to 5)

The story revolves around Judah, one of the twelve sons of Israel, and picks up from the previous chapter where Judah and his brothers have just sold one of their younger brothers, Joseph, into slavery. In fact, selling Joseph was Judah's bright idea. The brothers simply wanted to kill Joseph. But Judah thought, why not make a quick buck while they were at it? So he suggested that they sell Joseph, their own brother, to a gang of slave traders en route to Egypt.

So Judah isn't what you could call, a nice guy. But by the end of this account, we will see how God convicts Judah of the wickedness of his own sinfulness and brings him to the point of repentance for his actions.

Chapter 38 begins with Judah marrying a local pagan girl and having three kids. Already, this looks bad. Judah's father and grandfather were not allowed to take a wife from among the local Canaanite women, for fear of being enticed into ungodliness. Isaac and Jacob, Judah's dad and granddad both got wives from the distant home of their forefathers. But here Judah doesn't consult his father Jacob. Judah is a guy who makes up his own mind, thank you very much - in choosing his best friend (a man named Hirah the Adullamite, who will play a key role in Judah's sin later on), and in choosing his wife (a Canaanite woman named Shua). The brevity of his encounter with Shua and his marriage to her, suggests that Judah is a man who decides his own path and acts on his own impulses. He marries Shua and lays with her. As we read on, notice how Judah is constantly giving instructions to others. He expects to be obeyed, yet displays no willingness to submit himself to his own father, or even to his own conscience.

2. Tamar

Judah got a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name was Tamar.
But Er, Judah's firstborn, was wicked in the LORD's sight; so the LORD put him to death.
(Verses 6 and 7)

So, apparently, while Judah feels free to choose his own wife, the rule does not apply to his own sons. Judah "got a wife for Er, his firstborn". But God sees Er's wickedness and kills him because of it. We are not given any details on how Er offended God, but it must have been pretty serious. Not since the earth was destroyed by flood in Noah's time, or when Sodom and Gomorrah was levelled at the time of Abraham, has God visibly struck down sinful man. And even then, these were judgements poured out on masses of people, who had collectively sinned against God. Here, God kills this one individual. It is extraordinary in circumstance, but the uniqueness of the event, hints at the seriousness of Er's wickedness before God. It might be worth comparing him with his younger brother's sin later in verse 10, who also suffered the same fate and was similar described as "wicked in the LORD's sight".

Then Judah said to Onan, "Lie with your brother's wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to produce offspring for your brother."
(Verse 8)

With the firstborn dead, Judah instructs his second son, Onan, to "fulfil his duty". The request is as crude as it is direct. Judah doesn't say, "Marry Tamar, take care of her, and honour your brother's memory by raising a family with her." There is no hint of marriage. Only the very functional instruction to "lie" with Tamar - literally, to go into her. He doesn't even address Tamar by name - she is "your brother's wife", perhaps appealing to Onan's sense of duty, or even sympathy.

Deuteronomy 25:5-10 spells out the Mosaic law of levirate marriage (the word "levir" derived from the Latin word for brother-in-law; the Hebrew equivalent "ybm" appears 6 times in the passage). So, there was provision for this practice among God's people. We will look at how this applies in the following verses.

We studied this passage at Rock Fellowship recently, and as usual, we began by having members read a few verses each aloud. I do pity the brother who struggled to read out verse 9!

But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his; so whenever he lay with his brother's wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from producing offspring for his brother.
What he did was wicked in the LORD's sight; so he put him to death also.

(Verses 9 and 10)

Onan refuses to carry out his duty and verse 9 tells us why. Any offspring would not be his. This could mean either that Onan was worried that he own estate would be put at risk - in the scenario that he doesn't have children of his own, any sons borne to Tamar would be in his elder's name and inherit Onan's wealth upon his death. Another possible motivation is greed. With Er dead, Onan now stood to gain the larger portion of the inheritance. Producing an heir for his elder brother would negate this. So, it could either have been an aversion to risk, or Onan's motivation of greed, that led to his refusal to comply with his father's wishes.

But there is another possibility - shame. Onan didn't simply refuse to carry out his responsibility. Rather he deceived everyone into thinking that he did. He still slept with Tamar. But whenever he did, Onan would deliberately take steps to make sure she would not be impregnated. It is sometimes mistakenly thought that Onan's sin was that of masturbation, as described colourfully in verse 9. Such is the use of the word "onanism". However, looking at the context of Genesis 38, what Onan was practising was closer to coitus interruptus.

It is interesting to note that the law of levirate marriage in Deuteronomy 25 spells out a very peculiar form of punishment for a man who refuses to adhere to the Mosaic code. In essence, the law says he is to be shamed. This is in stark contrast to all the other penalties which involve compensation and payment. In this case however, the widow had the right to publicly humiliate the offender.

His brother's widow shall go up to him in the presence of the elders, take off one of his sandals, spit in his face and say, "This is what is done to the man who will not build up his brother's family line." That man's line shall be known in Israel as The Family of the Unsandaled.
(Deuteronomy 25:9-10)

So Onan wanted to keep up appearances without keeping to his promises, all the while avoiding the shame of public exposure (on himself as well as his future offsprings - who would be labelled the 'Unsandalled ones'); all the while sleeping with Tamar. Notice, that verse 9 indicates that he did this frequently and repeatedly, "Whenever he lay".

However, he could not hide his actions and motives from God. Onan was struck down for his "wickedness".

Judah then said to his daughter-in-law Tamar, "Live as a widow in your father's house until my son Shelah grows up." For he thought, "He may die too, just like his brothers." So Tamar went to live in her father's house.
(Verse 11)

Judah sends Tamar home. On the surface it looks like it is in her best interests. There, Tamar would be cared for in her father's household until Shelah, Judah's son was old enough to marry her. The text tells us, however, that Judah is more concerned about Shelah (what a name to give your kid!), and may not have intended to give him to her. He may have even been superstitious about her very presence, and wanted Tamar to be as far away as possible from his only surviving heir.

Whatever his hidden motives, Judah's words constituted a betrothal. All the more serious, when we consider how his subsequent sin in the following verses, would constitute adultery against his own son.

3. Blind to sin, justified in condemnation

After a long time Judah's wife, the daughter of Shua, died. When Judah had recovered from his grief, he went up to Timnah, to the men who were shearing his sheep, and his friend Hirah the Adullamite went with him.
(Verse 12)

Sheep-shearing was a season of celebration - marked by feasting and drinking (Esther 8:17, 1 Sam 25:2-8 - a good day , 2 Sam 13:23-24). As owner, it was also important for Judah to be there with his workers (eg. Laban in Gen 31:19, Nabal in 1 Sam 25:8 and Absalom in 2 Sam 23:24).

However, the celebration would have been at contrast in the wake of the death of Judah's wife, Shua. We find Hirah with him again. Perhaps he was there to console him in his grief. What is clear is, he is there now with Judah on his journey up to the festivities and celebration.

When Tamar was told, "Your father-in-law is on his way to Timnah to shear his sheep," she took off her widow's clothes, covered herself with a veil to disguise herself, and then sat down at the entrance to Enaim, which is on the road to Timnah. For she saw that, though Shelah had now grown up, she had not been given to him as his wife.
(Verses 13 and 14)

Tamar realises that her father-in-law had no intentions of honouring his promise to allow her to marry Shelah. The son was now of age, but Tamar was still in her father's house, waiting. She hears of Judah's journey up to the sheep-shearing celebrations and she lays out her plan to meet him - what she was about to do was planned. It involved a change out of her mourning attire into a "disguise" and a "covering", which translates an expression can also describe the putting on of perfume.

Then Tamar waits at the entrance of Enaim - which means "Twin Springs" or "Eyes". Genesis wants us to notice the irony in all of this: Tamar waits by the place of "Eyes" to capture the attention of a man who would be "blind" to her identity and his own sin.

When Judah saw her, he thought she was a prostitute, for she had covered her face. 16 Not realizing that she was his daughter-in-law, he went over to her by the roadside and said,
"Come now, let me sleep with you."
"And what will you give me to sleep with you?" she asked.
(Verse 15)

Judah is direct in his speech. No sweet-talk. No opening lines. He propositions her, inferring that Tamar is a prostitute from her "covering".

Yet, Tamar herself is direct and unabashed in her reply. She immediately asks for an offer for payment. "What will you give me?" She leaves it to Judah to set the price.

"I'll send you a young goat from my flock," he said.
"Will you give me something as a pledge until you send it?" she asked.
He said, "What pledge should I give you?"
"Your seal and its cord, and the staff in your hand," she answered. So he gave them to her and slept with her, and she became pregnant by him. After she left, she took off her veil and put on her widow's clothes again.

(Verses 17 to 19)

Judah's offer of a goat is substantial. Proverbs 6:26 mentions a "loaf of bread" as payment for a prostitute's services (going with the ESV's translation of "price" against the NIV's rendering of "reduces you to").

Tamar requests a guarantee of this promised payment; a pledge consisting of Judah's seal, cord and staff; the ancient equivalent of his credit cards and passport. They were personally and specifically identifiable to him. The seal was a small, tubular-shaped and made of clay with engravings on its side (There are examples on display at the Fitzwilliam Museum). This was rolled into wax to leave an imprint of its owner. It typically had a hole in it and the cord mentioned in verse 18 was the rope or string that threaded the seal, allowing it to be worn round the neck.

Meanwhile Judah sent the young goat by his friend the Adullamite in order to get his pledge back from the woman, but he did not find her.
He asked the men who lived there, "Where is the shrine prostitute who was beside the road at Enaim?"
"There hasn't been any shrine prostitute here," they said.


So he went back to Judah and said, "I didn't find her. Besides, the men who lived there said, 'There hasn't been any shrine prostitute here.' "
Then Judah said, "Let her keep what she has, or we will become a laughingstock. After all, I did send her this young goat, but you didn't find her."
(Verses 20 to 22)

Eager to retrieve his personal property, Judah sends his buddy Hiram with the goat to search for the prostitute. Tamar isn't there, so Hiram tactfully tries asking around for her. He enquires among the townsfolk of the "shrine prostitute", a slightly different term from the one used to describe Tamar in the earlier verses, and more politically-correct one.

It is interesting to see Judah so determined to honour his agreement with a stranger when he has been less than honourable with his own daughter-in-law. The irony, of course, being they are one and the same! Still, it becomes clear that Judah is trying to cover up the matter as quickly as possible. "Let her keep what she has," he says. He is thinking about the seal, cord and staff that he has lost, yet Judah is more afraid of losing face should his encounter be discovered, "... or we will become a laughingstock."

Despite all that has happened, Judah can still justify his own actions. "After all, I did send her this young goat." He did try to honour his part of the agreement, didn't he? His eyes remain closed to his actions at the place of "sight" (Enaim). They will not stay closed for long.

About three months later Judah was told, "Your daughter-in-law Tamar is guilty of prostitution, and as a result she is now pregnant."
Judah said, "Bring her out and have her burned to death!"
(Verse 24)

Judah discovers his daughter-in-law's pregnancy and his immediate reaction is outrage. "Burn her!" he instructs his servants. No need to check the facts, no need for explanations. Tamar has sinned. Tamar should be punished! Again, Judah feels entirely justified in his actions and words.

Verse 24 unpacks Judah's hypocrisy at several levels. Firstly, Tamar no longer lives under his roof. She is under her own father's care and authority. Secondly, Judah has himself recently slept with another woman not his wife.

But thirdly, Judah was quick to mete out a punishment that was so severe, it was reserved for a specific situation in the bible. Burning was only outlined in Leviticus 21 for daughters of priests who had prostituted themselves. You see, the only way Tamar could come close to being guilty of committing the specific sin of adultery, was if she was formally engaged to Shelah. However, Judah himself had taken steps to prevent this from happening. He never intended to let his only surviving heir marry this "black widow", yet was more than willing to keep up appearances, even if it cost Tamar her life. He might even have seen this as the perfect opportunity to get out of the sticky situation.

The real question is: why was Judah so angry? He is so angry that he demands that another person be burned alive as punishment for their sin. Why was he so incensed?

Judah is being religious. He is. He can see sin clearly. Just not his own.

When it is someone else's sin, that's bad. When it is someone else's fault, they need to be punished. And sometimes we need to realise how blind we are to our own sinfulness by simply looking at the last time we lost our temper. Was it over something that we needed to repent first of, before pointing it out to others? And sometimes it is precisely because we know that we are guilty of that same sin, that we are so passionate about it with others - in church, at home, on our blogs and Facebook - it's hypocrisy.

This isn't some of us, it's all of us. One thing the bible does is not just expose our sins, but our hypocrisy and blindness to our sinfulness. And God does this for our good, that we might begin to realise just how messed up we are but how gracious he is. For Judah, he thinks he is fooling everyone around him, by hiding the fact he went to see a prostitute, by living his life his own way but telling others how they should listen to him when it comes to their life decisions, by being hard on the sin of others and laying down the law - but in the end he cannot fool God, and he only fools himself. In such an instance, the one gracious thing God can do, is expose his blindness.

As she was being brought out, she sent a message to her father-in-law. "I am pregnant by the man who owns these," she said. And she added, "See if you recognize whose seal and cord and staff these are."

Judah recognized them and said, "She is more righteous than I, since I wouldn't give her to my son Shelah." And he did not sleep with her again.

(Verses 25 and 26)

Tamar lets the evidence speak for themselves. The seal, cord and staff belong to Judah. Judah is guilty of adultery. Judah slept with his own daughter in law!

Now, look at Judah's reply. Notice that he doesn't try to cover it up. Judah doesn't make excuses about not recognising who Tamar was, of the grief he had in being recently widowed - none of that. In fact, he goes one step further. He admits his earlier fault in withholding Shelah in marriage to Tamar.

The scene ought to remind us of another account of adultery and infidelity. In 2 Sam 11, King David took another man's wife to his bed, and tried to cover it up when the woman got pregnant. He killed her husband, brought the girl into his palace, and thought the matter was over and done with. He thought he got away with it. Yet chapter 11 ends with the words, "But the thing David had done displeased the LORD." God saw, and in the following chapter, God spoke.

The prophet Nathan confronted David, not directly appealing to his shame by exposing his sin, but interestingly, by appealing to his sense of justice. In 2 Samuel 12, we read how Nathan told David a parable - of a rich man who stole an ewe lamb from his poor neighbour. David's anger flared up, "As surely as the LORD lives, the man who did this deserves to die! 6 He must pay for that lamb four times over, because he did such a thing and had no pity."

Nathan's reply to David? "You are the man!"

Same thing happens here in Genesis 38. Tamar was essentially saying to Judah, "You are the man!"

We see an even tighter connection in the final verses of this chapter.

4. Salvation for sinners

When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb. As she was giving birth, one of them put out his hand; so the midwife took a scarlet thread and tied it on his wrist and said, "This one came out first." But when he drew back his hand, his brother came out, and she said, "So this is how you have broken out!" And he was named Perez. Then his brother, who had the scarlet thread on his wrist, came out and he was given the name Zerah.
(Verses 27 to 30)

The account of the births of Perez ("Break out") and Zerah ("Bright colour"), echo that of Jacob and Esau in Genesis 25. A struggle occurs in the womb of the mother. The older brother is displaced by his younger sibling. It is a picture on the one hand, of conflict that is so ingrained in our natures it occurs between the closest of kin. Yet in the bible, it is also a key theme of God's sovereign choice, in blessing the weak, underlining his gracious undeserved mercy in salvation. As with Abel over Cain, Jacob over Esau, so here Perez in chosen over Zerah.

The birth of twin sons signifies God's mercy over the Judah-Tamar episode. Two sons given for two sons taken. In every genealogy listed on the bible since then, Perez and Zerah are counted as Judah's sons. But the story doesn't end there.

Ruth Chapter 4 ends with a genealogy of King David. Ruth, like Tamar, was a pagan woman. She, too was a widow. And when Ruth gave birth to her son, it was meant to be an adherence to the Deuteronomic law of the kinsmen-redeemer, the levir, who was a righteous man named Boaz. Yet, all genealogies since then, acknowledge Boaz as the true father. The genealogy in Ruth 4 is significant, of course, because it ends with great King David. Yet, notice how it begins in 4:18 "This then is the family line of Perez."

The New Testament incorporates both accounts into the family line of Jesus, the true King, the true Son of David. Matthew 1:3 reads, "Judah the father of Perez and Zerah, whose mother was Tamar" and verse 5 reads "Salmon the father of Boaz, whose mother was Rahab, Boaz the father of Obed, whose mother was Ruth".

Four women are notably listed in this line of Kings and important men. All four are unexpected. Matthew doesn't include great matriarchs like Sarah, Rebekah or Rachel - instead, we find Tamar. We find Rahab, a prostitute, the mother of Boaz. Ruth is there as well, a foreign pagan woman from the people of Moab - who was borne of the incestuous relationship between Lot and his daughter-in-law.

And Matthew caps the genealogy of Jesus with Mary. Another girl embroiled in scandal. Whom Joseph married to avoid her being punished for the appearance of having been unfaithful. But from the gospel accounts, we know that Mary had Jesus through the miraculous intervention of the Holy Spirit. She was faithful to her vows to Joseph, and in her obedience to God.

Jesus was born to be King. That is what Christ means - it means Messiah, Chosen One - it means God's chosen King. But he was given the name Jesus because "He will save his people from their sins" (Matthew 1:21). That is what his name means. Saviour.

And God has brought this great good through great evil. Through a royal family line that is ridden with sinfulness and wickedness, God establishes his king in righteousness and purity. Through a people who would crucify and kill the only innocent man who ever lived, God would bring salvation to sinners, through Jesus' death on the cross.

It's a funny thing that Christians often do when they gather together - they confess their sins, and they ask God show them their sinfulness. Because as believers in the death and resurrection of Jesus, we know we have a saviour who takes our sins, purifies us with his blood, and raises us together with him in righteousness and glory.

Depth of mercy can there be
Mercy reaching even me
God the Just His wrath forbears
Me the chief of sinners spares
So many times my heart has strayed
From His kind and perfect ways
Making clear my desperate need
For His blood poured out for me

Give me grace Lord let me own
All the wrongs that I have done
Let me now my sins deplore
Look to You and sin no more
There for me the Savior stands
Holding forth His wounded hands
Scars which ever cry for me
Once condemned but now set free